Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Question of the Moment 79

Do you believe in love-at-first-sight? What about soul mates?

I do believe in soul mates. I definitely believe that everyone has their other half out there somewhere. I honestly do no believe that there is one person who will never ever find someone to love them back. It just doesn't add up in my brain for that to be possible. Yes, i know that there are some other elaborate soul mate theories, but when you get down to the simplistic, basic version of it (That everyone has another half to them. That there is one person out there that will make you truly happy and is perfect for you) yes i believe it. Now, do i believe that your soul mate will be 100% perfect match, no flaws, 100% everything you've ever wanted, NO because we're humans we have flaws. But, i do believe everyone has someone out there for them.

As for love-at-first-sight, its complicated. I believe that once you fall in love with someone that you can look back and remember when you first met them and think to yourself "Wow, i've loved them from the beginning." I believe that you can look back and decipher the way you two acted around each other as there always being love and chemistry between you, but i don't think that at the time you would actually know that. I know in those puppy love stages you feel like you're in love, but you're still crushing, its not love yet. Once you are in love i think you are able to see that you have been all along, but in the first stages you aren't or at least don't know it yet, but i dont think i believe in seeing someone and automatically falling in love LOVE with them.

What do you believe? Let me know in the comments below =]